Since I am basically talking about me transition here, I want to mention Renee Reyes site. Her site is very very insightful, positive, realistic and a total pleasure to learn from. If anyone is interested in practical steps for the transsexual, I can recommend her site. www.reneereyes.com Also, if you are a TS admirer, it is worthwhile reading what Renee has to say about how to date a TS. I can confirm she is right! ciao ciao Carolyn